Are we doing enough to make the Mass inclusive for those with physical disabilities?

Accessibility and adaptation to the mobility needs of others is one area that has improved. Many churches provide mobility assistance for those who need it, as well as hearing amplification devices and, at some Masses, signing for the deaf. Wheelchair ramps and designated parking spaces also make it easier for those with disabilities to get up and into the worship space.

In addition to these positive steps, there are other things we who worship can do to make the faith community even stronger. Many of these have to do with building greater understanding of those who are walking a life of illness and pain.

For example, when we greet one another before or during the Mass, we can be aware that the person whose hand we shake might have severe arthritis or fragile bones and, thus, needs a more tender touch. A churchgoer who does not kneel at the appointed times isn't necessarily demonstrating a lack of piety; perhaps knee or hip problems make kneeling impossible.

If someone declines to shake hands or otherwise reach out physically to fellow worshipers, we need not be quick to judge the person as antisocial. A person who looks otherwise perfectly healthy could be taking medication that lowers resistance to infection, causing the person to fear physical contact with others who might communicate illnesses.

Many people with physical handicaps work hard at maintaining what independence they can. It is natural to want to reach out to them and assist them with standing, walking or even holding the hymnal. But before offering such help, ask if they would like it. Your willingness to help can mean more than the help itself.

If someone comes to church with a service animal, know that even at this time of worship the animal is working. Engage the person in conversation and welcome, but refrain from petting the pooch.

Sometimes we are hesitant to talk with someone about his or her illness for fear of saying something that will offend or appear impolite. But asking how someone is doing and listening patiently to the response can truly brighten someone's day. Pray for guidance from the Holy Spirit, and ask the person afflicted if there is anything specific you can pray about or for. You'll be delighted at the inspiration that comes from prayer!

Parents might be embarrassed if their children blurt out seemingly insensitive comments about people with disabilities ("Daddy, why does that man have only one leg?" or "Mommy, why is that lady shaking her head all the time?"). These moments are really opportunities to teach valuable lessons about compassion for others. Answer the questions truthfully and simply when they arise. Children will be the better for it!

Often, a person who lives with illness and pain cannot get to church regularly. If you notice that someone's attendance is sporadic, perhaps you can obtain his or her telephone number and keep in touch. Our Christian walk extends beyond the aisles in church; showing concern outside of worship helps to build the community of the faithful.

Participating in Mass is one of the most precious aspects of practicing faith. For those who have physical challenges, it can be difficult sometimes to focus on and partake in the spirit and fellowship so very present there. The congregation that is aware of the challenges such people face and strives to make all welcome can greatly enhance the worship experience and bring closer those who might otherwise feel left out.

Author Maureen Pratt writes from Los Angeles.