A recent trip to my parents' Cuban homeland confirmed my worst fears that news of Fidel Castro's impending death has done nothing to lift the spirits of people waiting for change on the island.

I arrived in Havana several days after Castro's secretary made the shocking announcement that Castro was transferring power to his brother Raul due to an operation to stop severe intestinal bleeding. In Miami, the Aug. 7 news was greeted with several hundred people dancing in the streets and around-the-clock predictions on Spanish-language radio about how soon Raul would be toppled or if he was even still in the country.

Having studied and followed the Cuban situation for more than 12 years, I was sure that Cubans on the island would not be reacting the way Miami Cubans were. But the stark contrast on both sides of the Florida Straits is a sad reminder of just how little we in the United States know about Cuba and the life of an average Cuban citizen.

Every single person I spoke to in Cuba has tried at least once -- and many two or three times --- to petition the U.S. government for a visa to leave the island. Every single person I spoke to has a member of his or her family living in the United States who sends remittances regularly --- something Cubans depend on. Every single person I spoke to has all but given up on the country and does not think that Fidel Castro's departure would have much of an impact on the repressive machinery and bureaucratic nightmare that has become the norm in Cuba.

This is disheartening for several reasons. For starters, the future of the island is in the hands of Cuba's youth, 70 percent of whom were born after the 1959 Revolution, and they are some of the most apathetic people I met. Secondly, U.S. policy towards Cuba, which has become as outdated and unimaginative as "El Comandante" himself, is based on an erroneous notion that people on the island are just waiting for the dictator to die so they can seize their destiny. From what I saw and heard, nothing could be further from the truth.

Thirdly, the chances of another mass migration to the United States are high given that people feel little hope for change on the island. Lastly, I now have serious doubts that in my parents' lifetime we will witness a free, democratic and prosperous island.

Ever since I first traveled to Cuba in 1994, I have dreamt of making the journey with my parents and seeing the smiles on their faces as they reconnect with their homeland. It is doubtful that this will ever happen. Now I must strengthen my resolve to stay connected with the island and teach my children all they need to know about abuelo and abuela's heritage so that they may some day make this joyful journey with me in honor of my parents.

One hopeful note is that, after years of repression, the Catholic Church is growing stronger in Cuba. And the message the Church is delivering is one of reconciliation and strengthening civil society as opposed to seeking revenge. Cuban Americans have an important role to play in strengthening the Cuban church.

While visiting a small town surrounding a sugar mill my great-great aunts and uncle once owned, I attended Sunday Mass in a chapel that my extended family re-built in the late 1990s. That project began after my sister and I brought video footage back of the run-down chapel.

After seeing the church's dilapidated condition, my great uncle began raising money from family members and friends. Within a few years he was able to restore the church. He did this without stepping one foot on the island, but thanks to telephones, emails, and my generation's willingness to travel to the island we were able to make it happen.

Sitting in that chapel several Sundays ago, I could see how good it is that the people of this village have a place to go where they can find sanctuary from the disillusionment that has engulfed Cuba. This small renovation project offers me a glimmer of hope that we can and must continue to work for a peaceful transition to a free and democratic Cuba, however long it takes.

Manny Hidalgo is executive director of the Latino Economic Development Corporation in Washington, D.C. He holds a master's in Latin American and Caribbean Studies from Florida International University.