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Published: Friday, June 16, 2006

A matter of respect

The Catholic Church has a responsibility to enter into the civic world and let its voice be heard. This is nothing new, but it seems particularly critical today as we witness certain members of society rendered less than acceptable, at times mocked and scorned.

The issues of illegal immigration/border control and same-sex marriage have marginalized those who immigrate illegally and homosexual men and women. As we discuss these issues, it is most important to remember that the individuals involved are human beings, members of families and above all creations of God --- and, as such, deserve respect.

It is painful to listen to public figures refer to the former simply as "illegals," to hear them ridiculed and dismissed as if they have no worth. Some local radio programs are demonizing the illegal immigrant as the reason for problems in healthcare, education and the criminal justice system. Yes, there is a constitutional right to free speech in this country, but why does the public tolerate mean-spirited rhetoric? Why are millions of advertising dollars spent to support stations and programs that air such disrespectful and divisive voices?

Thankfully, our bishops have made it very clear that while border control is an issue that needs attention, the human beings involved must be treated humanely. They have done their job; what about the rest of us?

Our bishops also issued a very clear statement on same-sex marriage: they oppose it. However, they just as clearly state that they do not condone "unjust discrimination or animosity toward homosexual persons. In fact, the Catholic Church teaches emphatically that individuals and society must respect the basic human dignity of all persons, including those with a homosexual orientation. Homosexual persons have a right to and deserve our respect, compassion, understanding, and defense against prejudice, attacks and abuse."

I cringe when I hear anyone dismiss homosexuals as somehow deficient and unworthy of respect. It is a cliché to say that "some of my best friends are gay"; it is also true that some of my best friends have children who are homosexual, and you could not find better human beings. These young people are tributes to their families and society.

The Catholic Church in the United States claims nearly 61 million followers who, if so inclined, could certainly "raise a lot of awareness" about the proper treatment and respect for others. Assuredly, we do not all agree on each issue, but we can at least agree that, as followers of Jesus, we can treat one another with respect. At the very least, we can initiate meaningful discussion on these issues within our families, and we can certainly walk away from the cocktail and dinner party jokes and putdowns about immigrants and homosexuals.

Some will say the church has no place in speaking publicly about immigration. But what good is our faith if we do not try to use it for the good of society? If Jesus were here today, would he not take to the airwaves preaching respect for every member of society, no matter their skin color, language, heritage or sexual orientation? Would he not be involved in the political process, in search of the common good?

Anne Hansen is a parent education consultant and a parishioner at Blessed Junípero Serra Church, Camarillo. Her e-mail address is familymail@aol.com.



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