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Father's Day is especially meaningful this year for the Mountain
Family of St. Mark Church in Venice.
Last Father's Day, Dan Mountain, 58, an award-winning advertising
creative director and copywriter, was in a coma at UCLA Hospital
after suffering a massive brain stem stroke the afternoon
of June 3 while he was home alone in his third-floor bedroom.
His wife, Dorothy, had just picked up their seven-year-old
daughter, Simone, from St. Mark School that day and arrived
home to a quiet house. Assuming her husband had briefly left
their home near Venice Beach on a work break from his second-floor
home office, Dorothy planned to get dinner ready in the downstairs
kitchen. She wouldn't have gone upstairs and found her unconscious
husband except that Simone had recently received the new Harry
Potter DVD and requested to watch it in her parents' bedroom.
Praying
for a miracle
Dan was rushed to St. John's Hospital in Santa Monica where
it was determined that he required immediate surgery. He was
transported to UCLA where Dorothy pleaded with the doctors
to perform the necessary surgery involving removal of the
large hematoma clot in Dan's brain to save his life.
"No one gave him any hope of recovery," said Dorothy. "When
the doctors walked out of the examining room, no one made
eye contact with me." The neurosurgeon advised against surgery,
saying that if Dan survived, he would probably spend the remainder
of his life in a nursing home unable to breathe on his own,
swallow or communicate.
The tenth of 12 children from a Catholic
family in Pittsburgh, Dorothy had seen her mother lovingly
care for a sister with Down's Syndrome as well as her ailing
father before each passed away. Shored by her mother's example
and bolstered by her faith, Dorothy told the neurosurgeon
she would take care of her husband of 13 years no matter if,
as the doctor warned, he would never be the same. "I told
the doctor that Dan's heart and soul would always be the same
to me," said Dorothy. She prayed for a miracle.
Dan
survived the three-hour operation, but remained in a coma.
"Every day for three weeks, I was confronted by family and
friends saying I had to let Dan go," said Dorothy. Distraught
at the thought of Dan living in a permanently vegetative state,
Dorothy agreed to take Dan off life support and made arrangements
to take her husband home for hospice care.
On June 24, Dan's life support tubes were withdrawn. To
everyone's surprise, he began breathing on his own. By 5:30
p.m. that day, he was talking. "Tell my wife, I love her,"
he whispered.
'Remarkable
recovery'
Dan was re-evaluated by the doctors at UCLA, improving enough
to qualify for re-hab at the Daniel Freeman Rehabilitation
Center in Inglewood. He was paralyzed on his left side, but
astonished everyone with his improvements in speech and memory.
Dorothy made him a scrapbook of photos showing Simone as a
baby to help him recover his memories of the infancy of their
adopted daughter.
"I truly believe that God bestowed upon me a miracle," Dorothy
declared at a thanksgiving Mass held at St. Mark's to pray
for Dan's continued healing. "I am forever humbled and grateful
for the magnitude of his love, mercy and compassion. I have
my husband and Simone has her father. We have been blessed
with new life."
Dorothy expressed her family's gratitude for the "incredible
support system" provided by neighbors, friends, family and
St. Mark parishioners. She singled out Jesuit Father Richard
Dimler, St. Mark's resident priest, for encouraging her "with
one small but powerful phrase: 'Where there is life, there
is hope.'" After spending six weeks at Daniel Freeman, Dan
came home.
During
a medical exam last October, neurosurgeon John Frazee declared
that Dan had made a "remarkable recovery" and could expect
additional recovery. Dan continues to make progress. He undergoes
daily physical therapy with the help of an in-home caregiver
and is able to walk with a cane. To exercise his mind, he
writes in a journal two hours a day.
He gives full credit to his wife for her love and support.
"No doubt about it, my beautiful wife and the doctors saved
my life," said Dan. "We don't know why we were so lucky. It
has made us more resolute about what matters. It's all about
love.
"Everyone's been incredibly supportive," he added. "I have
a second chance at life; it's a precious and rare thing."
On Saturday, Dorothy is throwing a 60th birthday party for
Dan to celebrate his "miraculous fight" and recovery. "Dan
never once said 'Why me?' said Dorothy. "He survived insurmountable
odds. I'm so proud of him."
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