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The seven men ordained for the Archdiocese of Los Angeles
in 2002 and 2003 each tell a unique story of journey --- sometimes
from unique professions and from far-off lands, awakening
as to the implications of priesthood and ministry to those
in need, and a personal fulfillment of a life long dream.
Each priest credits unbelievable support of other priests
with making the difference --- and the invariable support
of family and close friends. And equally important, they credit
the training and network of services in spiritual direction,
guidance and counseling provided by the archdiocese with helping
them become better priests. Sometimes they say that nothing
could have prepared them for what they would find after the
welcoming at the door of their new parishes.
Theirs is a new world impacted by
accusations of clergy sexual abuse, announced almost on the
eve of their ordinations. But they seem to be riding through
the crisis as best as priests, religious and laity can at
this time and remaining faith filled people together with
their parishioners as one body.
Father
Gilberto Monico, 43;
Our Lady of Grace Church,
Encino
Born
on a small farm in San Jose de Avila, Jalisco, Mexico, and
one of thirteen children and only seven surviving boys, Father
Gilberto Monico felt very responsible for his parents. He
and his family members knew that farming in Mexico held little
future promise nor did his life-long dream of entering the
seminary.
So his family began the move to South Gate leaving one son
behind on the family farm. Gilberto and his brothers and sisters
worked to earn the money for a house for his parents. Gilberto
entered seminary training in Mexico and then slowly transitioned
to internships in parishes in Los Angeles, including Sacred
Heart, Lincoln Heights, and he began studies at St. John Seminary
College.
His greatest supports have been his family and his pastor,
Father Austin Doran, of Our Lady of Grace Parish, Encino.
His parents do not need his help as much now since they are
settled but they are a worry.
His challenges are not all behind
him. Languages are a challenge still but he is learning. "What
has made me the most happy is to celebrate the Eurcharist,"
and one of his greatest joys is that the people of Our Lady
of Grace "have accepted me." They send me a note and lovely
words --- they know that I don't understand everything but
they are open to me."
Father
Thinh Pham, 35;
St. John of God Church,
Norwalk
Father
Thinh Pham is no stranger to conflict. Born in Saigon, Vietnam,
he and his parents and seven siblings moved first to Paris
and then eventually emigrated to the United States when he
was a young boy. Thinh completed his studies and taught French
at California State University Los Angeles. At about the same
time he considered a life-long dream of priesthood.
On the day of his ordination into the deaconate he received
his Book of Gospels and he and his classmates were given the
simple command: "Preach what you believe!" And he has tried
to follow that command since. It was put to a test not long
after, too.
In his parish of St. John of God each of the resident priests
was assigned a Mass at which he was to preach about the church
sex abuse scandal. The preparation for the homily was very
difficult and all he could think of was that if he were to
walk down the street would people wonder if he were an abuser,
too. But he gave the homily and more than once nearly broke
down in giving it. After Mass that Sunday morning so many
parishioners came up to him and hugged him, giving words of
support. Then a young mother with her two-year boy came up
to him and said gently to her son, "Give Father a hug!"
"We worry more than the people do," say Father Pham. "Father
Thinh is only coming from the grace and gift of vocation,
not from himself. And the people are valuable as priests,
too." This is not a one-man show anymore," he often tells
parishioners.
Father Thinh credits all he has learned
these last two years especially to Msgr. Bernard Leheny, his
pastor. "I have a wonderful pastor, and the priests of the
house are wonderful, one priest after the other. I believe
that if you cannot manage the househould, then you can never
take care of the world. We have a great rectory. Father Bernie
lets me do what I feel called. The joy of journeying is being
with the people."
Father
Slawomir Szkredka, 29;
St. Genevieve Church,
Panorama City
Of
Hugarian and Lithuanian extraction, the family of Father Slawomir
Szkredka lived in Poland for centuries. Father Slawomir was
born in a small city close to Krakow, where his mother continues
to live.
As a young man he came to the United States and attended
a seminary in Michigan, which trained priests for Poland and
other parts of the U.S. After about three years of study in
Michigan he came to Los Angeles to complete his training.
He was also sent to Mexico to study Spanish before ordination.
Father Slawomir feels that his training and preparation
were excellent; there were not a lot of surprises following
ordination. He does his general share of duties in the parish
hearing confessions, saying Masses, conferring the sacraments,
counseling parishioners, and he also teaches religion at next-door
St. Genevieve High School.
This past semester he taught history of the church and has
also taught social justice and morality during previous semesters.
Father Slawomir loves working with young people and says that
his greatest challenge, and most time consuming preparation,
goes into those classes, and it is one of the most rewarding
experiences of his priesthood, too.
"The longer I am a priest the better," says Father Slawomir,
whose name means "in praise of peace" in Hungrarian or Slavic
languages. He knew God was calling him to the priesthood.
That is why he wanted to be ordained. "But I honestly didn't
like it at first," he admits. "I felt like I was being treated
like 'the baby priest.'"
Now, at last, that part is over.
The attraction to the newness of priesthood is over and people
can just get the message. "I don't want to get in the way
of the message," he emphasizes.
Father
Chris Bazyouros, 30;
St. Joseph Church,
Hawthorne
Half
Greek and half Irish on his father's side, and Croatian on
his mother's side, Father Chris Bazyouros grew up in Azusa
in St. Frances of Rome Church. "It has been a special privilege
to serve in the archdiocese where I grew up," he says.
And in his ministry in St. Joseph Parish, Hawthorne, he
sees the opportunity to serve even more. "This is such a huge
parish. It's my biggest challenge," he says. "There are so
many groups and so much to do that you could walk around and
feel lost here. I am working a lot on marriage preparation,
walk-in counseling, sacramental preparation, in the school,
altar servers, liturgy and environment, trying to set up the
vocation committee. What I like best is the getting involved
in people lives."
"Whatever we do together I am hoping they will find some
benefit."
His greatest joy, he says, is how
"life in the parish has most energized me." He is amazed at
"how fast the year has gone by." And he has learned that "I
am not meant to do everything. I am meant to facilitate the
process. When I am most frustrated is when I forget who is
in charge here."
Father
Jim Bevacqua, 44;
Holy Trinity Church,
San Pedro
Father
Jim Bevacqua grew up in Ohio, and came out west after college.
The oldest of five children, he had a variety of jobs on the
west coast and worked as a senior vice president in charge
of production at Touchstone Studios before entering the seminary.
One of greatest joys of his priestly ministry is that of
living and working in parish life. And the fast moving months
since ordination in May have been a sign of the fact that
he and the parishioners of Holy Trinity have "bonded really
well and the people have helped me grow."
He has enjoyed visiting classrooms in the parish school,
getting involved in student leadership groups, attending functions
in the parish, administering the sacraments, and most of all
celebrating Mass daily and on Sundays.
Father Jim feels that he learned a great deal from his experiences
in his active home parish, St. Monica in Santa Monica.
Life since ordination has not been without its challenges.
The isolation of the seminary can be difficult to break from.
But Father Jim did not have long to become acclimated after
he moved in. He had arrived and not yet unpacked his belongings
when young parents arrived at the office doors looking to
speak with someone. Their young son had just passed away,
and for once in his life he did not have the words. He could
only listen, and he learned that sometimes all a person can
do is listen.
He acknowledges that he is a perfectionist
by nature, and now the challenge is to simply to let go. Seminaries
are very busy places but he knows he needs to concentrate
now on the right kind of busyness. "I feel incredibly blessed
and inspired to serve the people," he says.
Fr.
Abel Loera, 32;
St. Gertrude Church,
Bell Gardens
Born
in Guadalajara and as one of 11 children, Father Abel Loera
concedes he has learned a great deal since his ordination
in May 2003. He was 15 when he came to the United States to
work and did not complete all of his studies, but had a dream
of priesthood. His own father had died when Abel was 11 years
old. Today one sister lives in Fontana, he ministers in Bell
Gardens, and all the rest of the family lives in Mexico. His
home parish is St. Louis of France in La Puente.
Since his ordination his happiest day of the week is Sunday.
He loves being with the people on Sundays. "Their presence
has given me a lot of joy," says Father Abel, as he journeys
with the people sharing their sorrows and joys together.
Sunday is also one of his most difficult days --- coming
home to a rectory after a crowded schedule of six Masses every
Sunday, and then it is suddenly quiet, eerily quiet. So his
priest friends have been the greatest supports for him, as
well as his pastor, Msgr. Henry Gomez.
Another overall challenge for Father Abel, all through seminary
and this first year of priesthood, has been time management.
At the beginning he "was always saying 'yes' to everything
when asked." He also has worked hard on developing his English
skills, which were not that good entering St. John's, but
have improved through years of seminary training and assisting
in parishes.
He also never realized how busy and hectic the life of the
priest can be on a daily basis. His pastor has been very helpful
and supportive. "I am not Christ," says Father Abel. "I cannot
change the world."
And every time he visits the cathedral
he remembers his ordination, when his whole family came to
be with him. "I try to keep that ordination in my heart,"
he says. "It is hard, but it is a gift, something very, very
special."
Father
Sam Ward, 33;
St. Emydius Church,
Lynwood
For
Father Sam Ward, seminary preparation for the priesthood seems
to have been much more than adequate, as he reflects back
upon his training and internships in preparation for ordination
last May. And yet at other times, "Padre Samuel" says he felt
totally unprepared for some of the needs he has had to meet
among his people of St. Emydius in Lynwood.
Many truly faith-filled people also come to his parish looking
for the practices and beliefs that brought comfort in their
home countries --- in some cases, semi-superstitious practices
such as use of spiritualists, black magic, card readers. They
are "people of faith," he says, but they utilize these practices,
too. He was not prepared for the melding of faith and "spiritualism."
Father Ward grew up in St. Jude and St. Maximilian parishes
in Westlake Village. Ventura County is his "home," and he
is the third of four boys in his family. Prepared by education
from UC Irvine in 1995, he started out teaching pre-school
and coaching young people. But it was his great love of priesthood
and priestly life that drew him to enter the seminary and
the ability to enter into his people's life in such a special
way.
"We don't need to invent or go to other things," he says.
"We have a 2,000-year-old treasury of devotions and pilgrimages,
processions. We don't need to go outside this." So there have
been some challenges for this young priest, but the challenges
are small in comparison with the joys. And the learning lesson
in these experiences has been profound for him, too.
"Being a priest in general has been such a joy," says Father
Ward. "There have been obviously the highs and lows. Celebration
of the sacraments and being able to be in the highs and lows
of people's lives has been important. These people literally
place their hearts in your hands."
And
the workload can be endless, too. Ministering in a large,
mostly Spanish-speaking parish means that the needs are endless.
He has to constantly remind himself that that he is not the
Messiah.
"There are tremendous needs out there. And I can do what
I can do, but you realize that the needs are so much greater,"
he adds.
What gives him energy? Prayertime, spiritual direction,
and knowing that he has to be faithful to both. And with all
the highs and lows, if he had it do to over, "it would still
be priesthood for me."
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