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Students throughout the Archdiocese of Los Angeles have been
preparing for Mother's Day this year in a unique and special
way --- by helping other kids with mothers in prison to visit
their moms.
The annual "Get on the Bus" event marks its fifth year May
7, when some 240 children will board 13 buses to visit three
correctional facilities --- Valley State Prison for Women
and Central California Women's Facility in Chowchilla (in
the central San Joaquin Valley), and Ventura Youth Correctional
Facility in Camarillo. The young ones will travel with their
guardians from as far north as Sacramento and as far south
as San Diego.
Five years ago Get on the Bus was launched with nine families
from Southern California and one bus. The program's considerable
growth has been made possible, in part, through the monetary
and in-kind contributions of Catholic school students and
confirmation groups throughout the Archdiocese of Los Angeles.
"Children understand from a child's perspective what it
would be like to not have your mother," said St. Joseph of
Carondelet Sister Suzanne Jabro, Get on the Bus co-director.
"They think this is a great program, and they want to be involved."
Students from Holy Trinity School
in San Pedro sold Easter candy and raised $1,500 to sponsor
one of the buses. The confirmation group at Santa Clara Church
in Oxnard collected another $1,400. Students from St. Lawrence
Martyr School in Redondo Beach donated teddy bears. And youth
from Loyola High School in Los Angeles will be serving breakfast
to children leaving on the Los Angeles bus.
"It
would be terrible not being able to talk to your mother, so
I'm glad we're helping children visit their mothers," observed
Katie Morales of St. Joseph School in Hawthorne, where students
collected more than $1,300.
Added Chloe Scognamillo of Holy Trinity School: "I feel
I'm helping a child get somewhere important."
Other students have donated backpacks that are being filled
with age appropriate toys like crayons, coloring books and
electronic games. The games will entertain children traveling
on the bus --- some for up to seven hours.
During the prison visit children and their mothers will play
games. Toys, rocking chairs, music, books and art materials
will be on hand. A photographer will take two Polaroid pictures
of child and mother so that each can remember the visit.
"Every child needs a great memory of their mother," noted
Kendra Keyes of St. Joseph School. "Even if it is one day,
that memory will live forever."
Most of the children on the bus have
not have seen their mothers since last year or longer. These
young ones are often cared for by grandparents, who because
of distance or expense, aren't able to visit the prisons.
Sister
Jabro said she has been receiving phone calls from out of
state by people wanting to learn how to replicate the program.
"Obviously it's an unmet need," she said. "Women told us they
never saw their children. We didn't realize just how many
didn't see their children."
This year is the first time Get on the Bus is taking children
to visit their mothers at the California Youth Authority facility
in Camarillo. Young female offenders ages 14-24 who come in
pregnant have their babies taken away within 24 hours of giving
birth. Get on the Bus is bringing newborns and toddlers from
northern California to visit their mothers.
"We're creating a mother-child relationship," said Catherine
Conneally-Salazar, Catholic chaplain. "Our whole vision at
this facility is to be female responsive. We're looking at
the needs of a female [who's locked up]."
In addition to the schools and parishes, the collaborative
statewide event has received major support from the women's
religious communities and the St. Vincent de Paul Society.
The archdiocesan Office of Restorative Justice/Detention Ministry
provided office space and in-kind services. Interfaith support
has come from Lutheran churches and St. Sophia Greek Orthodox
Cathedral in Los Angeles.
More
than $75,000 has been raised for this year's event to pay
for the buses, meals and activities. And because of cutbacks
at prison facilities, Get on the Bus has to pay the costs
of having extra prison guards to accommodate the large group.
Once the three-hour prison visits are completed, the goodbyes
between a mother and her children can be heart wrenching,
said Dominican Sister Catherine Bazar, a Get on the Bus leadership
team member.
To ease the transition for the ride back home, Catholic
school students have collected teddy bears to be given to
each child. A personal letter from their mother will accompany
each bear.
Even more important than the bears, the annual event allows
children and their guardians to meet other families with mothers
in prison and begin to build a community of peer support.
"The big dark secret these children keep is that their mother
is in prison," said Sister Bazar. "On this day they can meet
other kids like them and share feelings."
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