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When Alphonso Marsh was released from prison several months
ago he felt stressed and depressed. He didn't have contact
with his family, didn't have a place to sleep, hardly had
any clothes, and wasn't sure anyone would employ him.
"I had no where to go," said Marsh, who had completed a
28-month prison sentence at Avenal State Prison in Colinga.
But help arrived in the form of Dominican Sister Mary Sean
Hodges and parishioner Jack Vrtar of San Gabriel Mission.
The two picked up Marsh from prison and helped him find housing
at McIntyre House, a sober living community. Through St. Vincent
de Paul he was able to get some clothes. Sister Hodges and
Vrtar often visited and talked to him by phone. They gave
him job leads, and Marsh attended a 12-step program for those
trying to rehabilitate their lives.
But rehabilitation is tough business. Some 70 percent of
parolees return to prison within a year's time, said Sister
Hodges. It's a dismal statistic she thinks can be turned around.
Mentoring is key.
"I see that a person who does not have resources within
and without just simply can't make it without the support,"
said Sister Hodges. She's banking on the power of mentoring
relationships to break the recidivism cycle.
The silver-haired sister directs the parish-based program
to resettle released prisoners out of the archdiocesan Office
of Detention Ministry. Through the year-old Partnership for
Re-entry Program, a parish team of four to six people sponsors
an inmate. They correspond through letters and help the person
set goals. Once released, parishioners help the parolee find
housing, maintain phone contact and meet with the parolee
every week for the first three months. Parishes are not required
to make a monetary commitment to participate.
The program has received funding from St. Vincent de Paul,
Catholic Charities and office space from the Archdiocese of
Los Angeles.
In addition to San Gabriel Mission, parishes involved include
St. Frances X. Cabrini Church in South Central Los Angeles,
Our Lady of Refuge Church in Long Beach, St. Mel Church in
Woodland Hills, St. Ferdinand Church in San Fernando, Our
Lady of Lourdes Church in Northridge and Our Lady of the Assumption
Church in Claremont.
"A lot is just having someone who's positive to talk to.
They will give you the right guidance," observed Marsh of
his mentors. "This can help a person coming out of prison
tremendously if they have the intention of changing."
For Marsh, 48, the internal transformation began while in
prison, after a suicide attempt.
"I knew something had to change in my life. I was doing
something wrong," said Marsh, who had lost contact with his
family following a domestic violence charge stemming from
drug use.
Marsh met prison chaplain Ned Quigley and got involved in
Catholic services and Bible study. He began reflecting on
his life and the heartache of losing contact with his young
son.
"I didn't mean to lose my family," said Marsh. "I finally
felt pain from what I had been inflicting on other people.
I cried out to God."
Marsh said he's determined not to go back to prison, and
stays in touch with his mentors daily.
"It gives me more strength and I want to do right, because
there's someone that does care," he said softly.
But
the temptations are fierce. A month ago, following a one-day
drug relapse, Marsh voluntarily admitted himself into a treatment
program. Sister Hodges talks with him regularly, listens,
believes in him, encourages him to take the next step.
Parolee mentoring, she said philosophically, "is not for
those who need it tidy. The mentor program is to stay with
a person to bring them through, even despite the setbacks."
Sister Hodges said her work has helped her to appreciate
the human condition and God's unwavering presence. God, she
said, "doesn't see the setback as much as the challenge to
go forward." Victory, she added, "is being willing to move
again in the right direction."
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